What was going on in the mind of the creator when he was gifting a man his sex organ?
Was it only for procreation?
Was it also meant to be for fun?
In some animals, the ejaculatory time is even less than 10 seconds.
Imagine you are passing through a jungle and see a lion. The lion notices you, but he also sees a lioness that appears to be in a wild mood. The lion would not give any thought to who he would prefer.
Before you could blink twice, he’d run for the lioness, deposit his sperms in the receptacle, and then rush toward you to devour his delectable food.
But this example is not enough to give you an idea that sex is only for procreation; because a lioness generally has sex, almost twenty times a day with different partners.
Now, that should tell you that sex is not meant only for procreation!
Erectile dysfunction(ED) has its space in clinical medicine.
ED can be defined as the inability of the man to attain and then sustain the penile erection sufficient enough to achieve satisfactory sexual intercourse.
A workable definition for a treating physician to decide whether a person qualifies for a working diagnosis is-“persistent inability for at least 3 months to attain or maintain an erection sufficient for satisfactory performance”.
In humans, procreation is a coincidence, if not an accident. The main purpose is recreation.
There is no way to know the prevalence of erectile dysfunction, for it still being a social stigma; people are not vocal with symptom. In my private practice, I see 2 to 3 cases every day. So if I see10 male patients per day the incidence should be at least 30% in the general population.
Talking about erectile dysfunction is still a taboo in India.
Incidentally, even those three patients who come to a clinic generally present themselves with some different problem. They just mention ED as a passing reference in a course of medical examination and try to portray it as just another symptom, though that’s a leading concern on their minds.
ED is very common in either the young population or those who are more than 60 years of age. Age-related erectile dysfunction is easier to explain. By the time men reach that stage most of them have diabetes, hypertension, metabolic syndrome, or some form of debilitating disease, which gives them a platform for ED.
The most common reason for teenagers is the pornographic material that is available on digital media, at the click of a button. In most of these instances, the sex is depicted in the most exotic possible way. So the teenagers grow up with weird ideas about sex. And when they get to experience their first encounter with sex, they learn it a hard way, that it is nowhere close to whatever is projected on the tube.
And then- what’s the natural outcome?
Abysmal failure!
This failure haunts them in the future whenever they have their sexual encounters. This forms a chain of failures from which it becomes difficult to emerge victoriously.
• Longer the better!
• Sturdier, the better!
• Longer lasting, the better!
These are the ideas they grow up with. Ironically this is the race where no man wants to come first. A man, who always tries his hardest to touch the finishing line first, wants to do the exact opposite when it comes to sex. But his brain is not conditioned for the situation.
And then performance anxiety takes over.
This is psychogenic erectile dysfunction.
The causes for psychogenic ED are —
• Relationship conflicts
• Sexual inhibitions
• Sexual abuse as a child
• Sexual preference conflicts
• Fear of pregnancy
• Fear of Sexually transmitted diseases
There is an intriguing story about what must have been going on in the mind of the creator when he made the penis.
First, he wanted to make it only for the sake of procreation. He changed his mind later. Why not create a level playing field where Adam can have a little fun!
He thought of several options.
First, he considered making a bony penis, but then that would constantly be in an erectile phase.
No way!
Men would have to move in three-legged trousers. There would be no way a woman could find out whether the man was excited after seeing her.
The second choice was to make it out of skeletal muscles. But the skeletal muscles would again require the help of bone for a support.
The skeletal muscles mean voluntary control. Men would move around the streets, flashing their erect organs all the time.
The creator must have thought it a vulgar concept!
No wonder; the idea was dropped!
Then he came out with this gem of a creation! There was no way this could have been any better. He created a special tissue called corpus spongiosum and corpus cavernosum. Once a man gets excited, blood enters in corpus spongiosum and corpus cavernosum, increasing both the length and the width of a penis. The function of the corpus spongiosum is to prevent compression of the urethra during erection.
Here is something interesting-
During physical activity, the blood supply to the heart increases 5 times its normal blood supply, but during sexual stimulation, the blood supply to the penis gets increased to phenomenal 100 times its normal!
What an idea!
Penis has autonomous control. No one can erect the penis at any given time at his will.
The other type of ED is “organic”, where you can pinpoint the cause of ED.
The list is long.
There were times when even experts would say that psychogenic causes account for 70% of all the causes of ED.
Now the opinion is exactly the opposite.
The causes of organic erectile dysfunction are-
1-Vascular causes are- Pre-existing cardiovascular disease, atherosclerosis, hyperlipidemia, hypertension, diabetes, and smoking.
One very important point to remember is- erectile dysfunction at a younger age could be a starting point for your cardiovascular event in the future. If atherosclerosis can start in penile arteries it can always start in your coronaries.
Diabetes Mellitus (DM) by far remains the most important organic cause of ED. Never forget the fact that DM is a disease of nerves and blood vessels
2- Anatomical- Penile fibrosis, Peyronie’s disease, Micropenis
3-Hormonal- Central hypogonadism, Thyroid disease, Cushing’s syndrome, Hyperprolactinemia, Metabolic syndrome, Obesity
4-Neurological- (Central)- traumatic brain injury, Parkinson’s, Multiple sclerosis (MS), brain tumors, spinal cord injury
5-Neurological-(Peripheral) — peripheral neuropathy, alcoholism,
6-Drugs- Beta-blockers, LHRH analogs (Luteinizing Hormone-Releasing Factors Agonists), antidepressants, recreational drugs (MDMA, LSD, oxycodone, amphetamine)
Psychological factors usually co-exist with organic ones. Even a bare minimal organic derangement causes performance anxiety.
What a physician needs to know is the answers to three basic questions-
1-Whether the disorder is of sufficient duration to warrant intervention?
2-Whether ED is the primary complaint or associated with other sexual dysfunction like PME (premature ejaculation) or low desire
3- Is the problem secondary to medication use, hormonal imbalance, a neurovascular disorder like DM, hypertension, metabolic syndrome, obesity, or psychogenic?
If it’s organic treat the basic cause.
If it’s psychogenic he will require psychological counseling.
No easy answers!
But it’s treatable.
(Global incidence of ED will increase from 152 million men in 1995 to 322 million men by the year 2025. This exponential rise is alarming.
In 2019–2020- 18 million American males suffered from ED.)